Red lights

Sometimes, things happen and line up in a way that just makes you stop and pay attention. I’ve had a few of those nights recently. Last month, driving home from therapy on 2 separate nights, I noticed how both times, I hit nearly every single green light. I live a good 20ish minutes away from …

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Are we there yet?

Last night, my therapist insinuated (or, really, flat out said) that our relationship might be something, bordering or resembling “secure” now. Now, if you’ve been following along for a while now, you’ll know that we’ve been doing a lot of work with relationships and attachments, and trying to form secure attachments, as opposed to anxious …

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Familiar, yet unfamiliar. And that is so important.

Tonight, like so many nights from the past, has me sitting on my bathroom floor, alone, drinking, while my husband is asleep in bed. It’s not that late. It’s only 10ish pm at the start of this writing. (Which speaks nothing of the potential end of this writing. Because as I get ready to post …

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