A sad sight, a hard feeling. Seeing the bottom of the glass.
The end of the night…or is it?
An empty glass, a last sip, the bottom of a heavy pour.
But I’m still coherent. Still awake, still receptive, still aware.
And that means that the bottom of the glass came too soon.
See, we’re not ready for the night to end. Not quite fucked up enough, not quite numb enough…not enough regrets.
I’m struggling with these demons.
One more sip and I’ll forget about tonight. I’ll wake up tomorrow with amnesia. Perhaps a forgiving punishment.
The last sip just seems to be…nonexistent.
An empty glass is just an opportunity to fill it right back up.
And if that isn’t the most fucking addict mentality you’ve ever heard…..?
I’ll regret this last drink, as I always seem to do.
I hate myself for this choice.
A choice I can’t seem to stop myself for making.
I can’t stand an empty glass.
I’m an addict through and through. My late night self will admit this freely. But it’s my sober self that will deny it tooth and nail.
Why the stark difference, I’ll never understand.
But for tonight, I can’t accept an empty glass.
I will regret this choice. Making another drink is a guarantee to forget this night, to make a bad choice…it’s a guarantee of regret.
But even knowing that, I make it anyway.
I’m making a bad choice. But at least my glass isn’t empty.
My soul is empty, my energy is depleted…my heart feels empty.
But at least my glass is not.
That’s fucked up, and I wish it were opposite.
But if I can prevent any one of those things from being empty…I guess that’s all I can do.
I wish I were better. I wish my heart were fuller, my soul was healed, and my brain was more rested. But it’s not.
So, my glass cannot be empty.
Even though it hurts, even thought I regret it already.
Maybe a full glass means I don’t kill myself. Maybe it’s just the one thing that helps.
Except that it hurts…so fucking much.
7 thoughts on “The bottom of the glass”
I’ve been there. Keep fighting. Keep trying to love and understand yourself. There is a light at the end if the tunnel, I promise ❤️
Sober me rereads this and doesn’t understand it. Sober me gets up in the morning and functions and doesn’t understand why this is as much of a problem as it is, why I can’t just get it together. I wish these 2 versions of myself would communicate a little bit more. But late night me doesn’t seem to give a shit.
I was involved in Moderation Management (which I highly recommend) for a few years before I quit drinking. And on their forum, they call that the eff-its. It happened a lot for me, until it didn’t
I will definitely look into it. I’ve always been unable to drink in “moderation” whenever I’ve tried, but maybe it’s something that could help.
There are a lot of people on the board who abstain, or are trying to abstain. I fou d it helpful in the beginning, when I really wanted to stop drinking but wasn’t able to yet
It seems this is a coping strategy for you, so finding a replacement, or attempting to address what you are coping with maybe good places to look 🙂
It definitely is how I cope. I’ve tried to find something to replace it with but I haven’t found anything to be as “good” as alcohol. But replacing it with something else is definitely something I need to do.